Ok I've gotten sort-of other the shock and gotten some more info. The lady who lives in the house we park in front of heard a loud noise between 2 and 3 AM and turned on the lights on looked out the wall window that's just a meter away from the car, and her car is parked in front of that window but she saw nothing. The cardoor was still looking at noon when we found out by her telling us so after talking to the police, who won't come, and the insurance then it seems clear it was attempted car-theft and they were scared away so all that was done was the smashed tilt-sidewindow and the soaked backseat and glasshards. Yesterday (thursday) we got a new window mounted at Peugeot and the glasshards cleaned up paid by the insurance and since it's a tilt-window it only 30 minutes and the car is now sealed again and the Mitsubishi dealer said the car still had the same value when the window was replaced so the deal is still valid and thanked us for being honest and we swapped the black Lancer for the wine red one which was the only other new 1.6 sedan he had, which btw was the one we testdrove since he got it in from new when we were there and just took off the plastic covers so it was factory new and not a democar.
After the clean-up we drove to the shopping mall near my old hometown south of Copenhagen and that road is so much less stressfull to drive. The traffic level is much smaller, and the drivers there are much much less agressive. That's what I mean. Finding a place where I can live where the place isn't as hard to live in (drive, shop, work etc.) than other places. Due to shopping needs, the problems of getting a home in DK without being a member of a home-organisation etc. make it hard to do something here that can be ended within a few months if I get a chance to move stateside which is what I still need/want to investigate.
Having lived here for two years with not much else to do I've had a lot of time and peace to do some soul-researching and study and I've found out a lot about how I work and how I can handle various situations, one of the key things is peace and quiet to relax and unwind, and that's why an apartment building is not an option, too many sounds that sounds like someone in my house (my brother lives in such a place and when we visited him when we still lived in Odense where he still lives then it was horribly clear how noisy it was, and how easy it was to think the neighbourgs door was in fact your own being openend).
Someone in another post, can't remember the nick atm, has Wile E. Coyote as a avatar because he never gives up, like himself, and that goes for me too. I just hope it comes to something good. I know there's nothing that's perfect as such, but I know from experience here and there that there are things and places that are better than others and the better ones are good enough for me to be happy with my life which to me is what I call human perfection, meaning it's a nice life, I enjoy it and the things that needs to be done are no more than I can handle without being ruined over it. Over the last couple of years however there have been many many different scares in the life of me and my mom, and since I react on real life then I can get a less than happy feeling about it, I still know there are nice people though, the neighbourghs here, who are mostly old ladies, have been fantastic in helping and they are nice and friendly and understand me and my mom and our situation and that helps. I bought a new computergame today and the storeclerk was nice and friendly and so I was that too back and it was nice, not that many people and we had good time to drive calmly and unstressed to make it to the ferry before it sailed. My mom has headaches though because of the stress and the shock.
So bottom line: I know there are bad things all over and nothing is technically perfect anywhere, but I also know that there are places in the world that suit me better than other places and those places would make me satisfied/happy to live and relaxed and ready to see how life evolves and that's what I'm going for.
And in case I never mentioned it, this kind of thing has never happend ever to my family, even before I was born, not a break-in, not an accident, no nothing.
Thank you for your kind words
Frank